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Anger....

After the devastation has hit be ready for the next emotion of ANGER! Mad at all that this destroys! Mad because now you have to sit your children down and explain to them the life you wanted to give them no longer exist. Mad that holidays will be split up! Mad that your grandchildren will not have one set of grandparents but 2! Mad that the legacy you wanted for you and your family of their parents being married for an eternity can no longer happen. You will feel like years of love and effort have been stolen from you. In time this will pass, and I know it doesn't feel like it right now but trust me IT WILL PASS, and it is all part of the process.

Work through the anger even if you need to seek help. Counselors can explain things to you that you do not understand on your own. Feel it do not bury it!!! DO NOT let it dictate your future.

Talk to family and friends to release the feelings and let them be there for you. Do not shut yourself out!

Go right now and start a new hobby something that takes your mind off of all the feelings. Something to pour all that you have into and let it be your guide to a new life. You are resilient.